Karen Tay built a peer-support program for women navigating workplace bullying and burnout, ran it through Princeton research, and found something a lot of managers don't expect: the problem usually isn't a lack of effort. It's a lack of support.

In this Leading Through Change encore, Karen and Lori unpack what Karen's Princeton-backed research found about workplace adversity, why women in the senior-manager to senior-director range are most likely to drop out of the workforce, and what actually helps.





Why "lean on" (a support system) matters more than "lean in" (individual effort) — a framing Karen developed with her Princeton research partner






How workplace bullying shows up differently across the US and Asia, and why hierarchy — not just gender — shapes who's vulnerable






The three long-term impacts of workplace bullying: practical, relational, and identity/dignity






The "burnout trap": why working harder often backfires, and what to do instead






What "workplace first aid" looks like, and how organizations can build peer support networks



Karen Tay (https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenzytay/) spent the first six years of her career serving the Singapore government before moving into tech, startups, and consulting in Silicon Valley. She is now CEO of Threshold Allies and founder of Inherent (https://www.linkedin.com/company/inherentconsulting/) , helping women navigate critical moments in their careers.





00:00 — Cold open: why this encore episode matters now






00:54 — Karen's path from Singapore government to founding Threshold Allies and Inherent






02:25 — Key findings from the Princeton white paper on workplace bullying






07:02 — Why "lean on" beats "lean in": building a real support system






09:22 — How workplace bullying differs for women vs. men, across the US and Asia






12:21 — The most surprising data insights from the research






14:20 — Long-term impacts: practical, relational, and identity/dignity






26:15 — The burnout trap, and why "try harder" backfires






28:19 — Policies and strategies that actually prevent workplace bullying






31:12 — What "workplace first aid" is and how to build it






32:44 — Where to find Karen Tay






33:49 — Closing message: you are not alone



Website: inherentjourney.org  |  Email: karen@threshold-allies.com  |  Instagram: @ktay.coaching  |  LinkedIn: Karen Tay  (https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenzytay/)

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